Adopted from Korea

Adopted From Korea is an interactive page created for and with Korean adoptees and those who love them. We’ll be continually adding information, so check back often. We hope you’ll use the comment box below to add your thoughts and suggestions. Among the topics we’ll be covering so far,  you’ll find information on:

adopted from korea

  • Korea gatherings & events
  • Korea adoption support groups
  • Dating
  • Korea films
  • Identity
  • Korea books
  • Adoptee loyalty
  • Fitting in & standing out
  • Korean language
  • Korea blogs
  • Birth parent search and reunion in Korea
  • International adoption resources
  • Race
  • Reflections from Korean adoptees

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We are open and available for covering topics you’d like to hear about as they relate to being adopted from Korea. Drop us a line below about something we’re talking about, or something you would like us to talk about. We look forward to hearing from you.

ADOPTEE LOYALTY

Adoptee loyalty tends to play a strong role in an adoptive family, and can strongly influence an adopted person’s response to birth country travel. Yet, quite often at workshops, when we ask for a show of hands as to who understands the concept, only a few hands go up.

Many adoptees feel a loyalty to their adoptive families that effects what they are comfortable sharing. They may feel uneasy acknowledging their true interests about visiting their birth country (or perhaps the interest is not there yet, or maybe it never will be).

For kids who have an interest in their birth country but are conflicted by adoptee loyalty, their inner thoughts may sound like this: “I was always afraid to mention my interest in my birth culture or birth family. If it hurt my Mom and Dad’s feelings, and they didn’t love me anymore, who would love me?” Don’t be fooled—even kids who are “pushing your buttons” frequently acknowledge this inner conflict.

 

5 Comments on “Adopted from Korea”

  1. Hello, I was adopted from Korea, the orphanage called Sung Ae Won, in 1981 to the US. I was apparently found abandoned at the orphanage. Somehow they gave me the Korean name is Jee, eun-san. I am desperately trying to find anything else out I can about me, and my birth family. I asked my adoption agency and the above info is all they had. I cannot find a website for my orphanage either. If anyone has any resources or ideas on how to find out more informaion, please let me know.

    Thank you!
    Kate

    1. Kate, the Korean Ties group visits Sung Ae Won regularly, and has for years. We are looking for the website for you.

      1. Thank you , and if you ever come across any other contact information please keep me in mind.

        Thank you!

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